The seasons are changing, some experiencing the transition from the warm summer to colder nights and shorter days, like we on the Southern Hemisphere. Others – and that is the majority of people – seeing longer days and warmer weather, the flowers coming out of their hibernation as a bulb, and a zing is in the air: a vibration of life and the love for life.
The word ‘LOVE’ didn’t make it into the most commonly used words in 2020, which have been mainly concerned with ‘pandamic’ ‘lock down’ and ‘remote’ for understandable reasons we are all aware of. But that doesn’t mean that it is not used frequently, particularly in never-ending netflix series or as a phrase of greeting family members: ‘ See you soon, I love you…’ What is said here in truth? : ‘ I depend on you so don’t you dare to leave me’. This is not love, but attachment, and often used as a plea (or sometimes even a threat) not to be alone.
In family constellation we use the word LOVE in a different way. It is neither romantic nor stereotype, in fact is has a strong impact on the family system and can heal generation old family wounds: The word YES or I LOVE YOU has an extremely strong impact to let stuck energy flow again between 2 people in a family dynamic.
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