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Healing the Flow of Money with Family Constellations

Money is more than numbers in a bank account. It is a flow, an energy, and — as we often discover in Family Constellation work — it is deeply connected to Love, Belonging, and our Family System.

This shows us that our ability to receive money is not just about working harder or being clever with investments. It is about whether we are fully open to receive life itself — and with it, the flow of resources, opportunities, and prosperity.

Why Money Sometimes Doesn’t Flow

In Family Constellations, financial scarcity is often addressed by the clients. There, it shows, the issue is rarely just about money. Blockages often reveal:

  • Unconscious loyalty to a struggling parent or ancestor (“If they suffered with money, how can I allow myself to be wealthy?”).
  • Exclusion in the family system, such as a forgotten sibling, grandparent, or victim of injustice. The system compensates, sometimes by restricting prosperity.
  • Rejection of the mother’s love, which directly affects our ability to succeed and thrive in the world.

When love does not flow freely between child and parents, money often struggles to flow as well.

Case Study: Opening The Door To Abundance

Anna (name changed), a participant in a Family Constellation VIRTUAL workshop in her mid-thirties, described herself as quite content with her life. She had a loving partner and a fulfilling job. Yet one issue kept troubling her: no matter how hard she worked, money seemed to slip through her fingers.

“It feels like I always hit a wall when I try to save — whether for buying a house, travelling, or even just for nice clothes,” she shared. “I get so frustrated and feel hopeless. It makes me sad, even angry at times.“

I ask Anna to choose representatives for herself, money, and her parents. Very quickly, the picture revealed itself: money stood far away from her, its back turned toward her father. Anna herself could not look at her mother — she carried deep resentment for her mother’s strictness during childhood.

The constellation revealed that money had not been flowing in her paternal lineage. Anna had unconsciously adopted the same pattern. Because she rejected her mother’s love, abundance could not reach her — just as it had not reached her father’s ancestors.

As the process unfolded, it revealed hidden entanglements in the father’s line that prevented abundance from flowing freely. Something shifted. The representative for money, who had until then been motionless and cold, began to move closer — first toward the father, then standing beside him. Anna watched this process with a mix of awe and hesitation.

At a key moment, she was gently guided to turn and face her mother. With support, Anna found the words:

“Now I see you, Mother, and your love for me. I allow myself to open my heart to you and your love. That is all I need, and it is more than enough. I take it all, just as it comes from you.“

A transformation occurred. By the end of the constellation, Anna, her mother, and her father were standing together, facing money, which now looked warm and welcoming towards them. When they reached out their hands, the representative for money stepped joyfully into their circle, as if belonging all along.

In the months that followed, Anna reported a remarkable change: she received a long-awaited promotion, and for the first time in years, she was able to build savings without constant setbacks.

Abundance as a Flow of Love

Hellinger emphasised that money and success are connected to the flow of love from the mother:

When we take our mother fully, success follows.

When we take both parents as they are — without judgement or rejection — we step into the full stream of life. Money, career, and abundance are part of that stream.

Creating Abundance in Your Own Life

Family Constellations can help you:

  • Release hidden loyalties to family struggles.
  • Reconnect with your parents as sources of life and strength.
  • Step into the natural flow of abundance that has always been available to you.

When love flows, money flows.

If you want to explore your relationship to money, abundance and the Flow of Love, join our workshop or book a one-on-one session. To dive deep into this topic and understand the magic behind Family Constellations and its deep soul-healing power, check out our online training.

Everything is Love Expressed!

Maia

The Gift of a Father’s Love

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What is the love of a father?

What does it look like?
Is it the same as a mother’s love?
And what is a father’s love when the child has never truly met him?

These questions often arise, especially when we pause to honour our fathers on Father’s Day.

When the father feels distant in Family Constellations, we often see a gap — a sense of distance between father and child. This distance may feel insurmountable, whether the father was emotionally unavailable, physically absent, or simply unable to express his love.

When that love is not received, children may unconsciously seek it elsewhere. As Bert Hellinger once said:

“Addictions have father’s face.”

In other words, when a child cannot connect to their father’s presence and strength, they often look for substitutes — in alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex, food, or even in heavy emotions like depression. The rejection of the father often grows out of stories and judgments: “He wasn’t there for me,” “He couldn’t talk about his feelings,” or “He cared more about work than about us.”

A Father’s Day Workshop
This Father’s Day, we will hold a special workshop to connect with our fathers and the deeper source of father’s love.

I remember in one constellation, the dynamic between a father and daughter was represented with striking clarity.

James (name changed) stood in for the father of a participant who wanted to work on her anxiety. Looking at the representative of his daughter, he said:

“I see there’s confusion in my daughter, but my love for her is just to be who she really is. It’s almost as if I have given the world a gift that doesn’t want to be unwrapped.”

The Father’s Gift
This is the essence of a father’s love:
To give the gift of life itself — a unique spark, a one-of-a-kind presence in the great play of our world.

When a child (later an adult) holds back through depression, anxiety, or addiction, it is often that gift which remains “wrapped.” The inner voice says: “No matter what I achieve, I never feel good enough.”

Yet once the stories and judgments around the father dissolve, something remarkable happens: the heart opens. The love of the father — and of all the fathers before him — can be received as it truly is: pure, unconditional, and life-giving.

Unwrapping the Gift
When this love flows, the gift no longer stays hidden. Talents, strengths, and possibilities that have been in the DNA since conception begin to shine.

It is like a star finally taking its rightful place in the night sky — no longer dimmed, but bright and clear, contributing its light to the whole.

Happy Father’s Day to all fathers, everywhere in the world.
May we learn to see their gift for what it is — and allow ourselves to unwrap it fully!

Love, Maia

Love That Stays

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Understanding Relationships with the Orders of Love

This year, 2025, marks what would have been Bert Hellinger’s 100th birthday. We remember him not only as the founder of Family Constellations, but as a teacher of the heart—a man who dedicated his life to helping people understand love, suffering, and the deep soul ties that connect us all. His profound work teaches us about relationships and what makes them last.

We are shaped, guided, and held—sometimes painfully, sometimes lovingly—by the people who came before us, those who surround us now, and even those we’ve never met.

But why are relationships sometimes so difficult? Why do we repeat painful patterns, feel stuck in love, or carry burdens that don’t seem to be ours? Why do people hold on to unhealthy relationships?

Through his groundbreaking method of Family Constellations, Bert Hellinger demonstrated that love requires order to flow. When the hidden dynamics in our Family System are acknowledged and seen with compassion, we can return to the natural Flow of Life and Love—what he called ‘die Ordnungen der Liebe’, translated from German to: The Orders of Love.

The Three Basic Needs in Relationships

Hellinger discovered that every relationship—whether with a parent, partner, child, or even an ancestor—rests on three deep soul needs:

1. The Need to Belong

We all long to belong. From the moment we are born, our heart reaches for connection—with our mother, our father, our family.
When someone in the family is forgotten, excluded, or pushed away—perhaps due to trauma, loss, shame, or silence—the Family System reacts. Often without realising it, someone later in the family will carry that pain, trying to restore wholeness.
Family Constellations gently help us acknowledge who or what has been left out, so Love can flow again and opens new doors to healthy relationships.

Paula’s Story:

Paula had always struggled to feel close to her mother. No matter how much she tried to please her, a quiet distance remained. In her adult relationships, she often felt invisible—like she never fully belonged. During a Family Constellation session, a hidden truth emerged: before Paula was born, her mother had miscarried her first child—a deeply longed-for baby who was mourned privately, but never spoken of again. Although this child was never born, they were still Paula’s older sibling. Yet, in the silence that followed the loss, they have never truly been acknowledged as part of the family.

Out of love and loyalty, Paula had unconsciously carried the burden of this missing sibling—trying to fill the space left behind, while also feeling like she didn’t have a rightful place herself. Once this sibling was honoured and given a place in the family system, something shifted. Paula felt a new closeness with her mother, and her sense of self began to settle. For the first time, she felt truly seen—within her family and in her relationships.

2. The Need for Order

There is a natural order in all things. Parents come before children. The first partner comes before the second. Every family member has a rightful place.
When this order is disrupted—for example, when a child takes on the emotional burden of a parent, or a sibling is not acknowledged—relationships become confused or burdened.
Restoring order allows peace, respect, and strength to return to the Family System and to our hearts.

Steven’s Story:

Steven had always felt responsible for his mother. From a young age, he became her emotional support—comforting her during arguments with his father, managing her moods, and making sure she felt okay. As a boy, he learned to put his own needs aside and ‘be strong’ for her. As an adult, Steven struggled with anxiety and burnout. In his romantic relationships, he often found himself overwhelmed by his partner’s emotions, repeating the same pattern—being the helper, the fixer, the one who holds it all together.

In a Family Constellation, it became clear: Steven had taken on the role of a partner to his own mother. The natural order—where the parent gives and the child receives—had been disrupted. Once this was acknowledged in the constellation, he could begin to release the burden. With a deep bow to his mother, he gave the responsibility back and reclaimed his rightful place as the son. Afterwards, Michael reported feeling lighter, more energised, and more at ease in his relationship. For the first time, he was learning how to receive—without guilt or fear—and to trust others to carry their own weight.

3. The Need for Balance

Love also needs balance. In relationships, especially between partners, there must be a natural give and take.
If one gives too much and the other cannot return it, the bond weakens. Resentment, guilt, or distance may grow.
Family Constellation helps us see the deeper reasons why we over-give or struggle to receive and to unveil hidden Family Dynamics as the source of an unhealthy relationship. With awareness, we begin to bring love back into balance.

Emma’s and Leo’s Story:

Emma was always the giver in her relationships. With her partner Leo, she did everything—planned holidays, managed the house, supported him through career changes, and tried to make him happy no matter what. Leo appreciated her, but over time, he became more distant and emotionally withdrawn. Emma felt exhausted and unfulfilled, silently wondering, “Why am I the only one trying?”

In a Family Constellation, Emma uncovered a hidden ancestral pattern that had shaped generations of women in her maternal line. She found herself entangled with a distant female ancestor—a woman who had endured an abusive relationship and learned that the only way to stay safe was to obey, to give endlessly, and to expect nothing in return. This survival strategy had quietly echoed through time. Emma began to see the same pattern in her own life. Her mother, too, had given everything to Emma’s father—until he eventually left the family. And now Emma, without realising it, had been doing the same in her own relationships: over-giving, hoping for love, and silently bracing for abandonment.

The constellation revealed the cost of this loyalty—how love, distorted by fear, had turned into sacrifice. But it also opened the door to healing. By seeing and honouring the original woman who carried this pain, Emma could finally release the burden. She no longer had to carry the belief that love requires self-erasure. With this insight, a new path became possible—for Emma, her mother, and the generations to come.

Afterwards, Emma began to ask for what she needed, to say no without guilt, and to allow Leo space to give back. Their relationship started to rebalance, and both felt more connected and respected.

Returning to the Flow of Love

When these three basic needs are met, our relationships become a source of joy and nourishment, not struggle. We feel freer, stronger, and more connected—to ourselves and to those we love.

This is not about blaming anyone. In fact, it’s the opposite. Family Constellation invites us to see, often for the first time, how much love and loyalty we carry—even when it shows up in the form of pain. And it shows us how to make a shift—from burden to blessing.

Through a single constellation, something begins to move. Not just in the mind, but in the heart and soul. Often, clients describe a sense of deep peace, relief, or insight—something they have never felt before.

A Personal Invitation

As we celebrate Bert Hellinger’s legacy this year, let’s take a moment to reflect on our own relationships. Is there someone you feel distant from? A repeating pattern you don’t understand? A longing to feel more connected and whole?

Family Constellation gently guides you to the place where healing begins—not by changing others, but by changing your relationship to the unseen stories you carry. We at Family Constellation VIRTUAL offer one-on-one sessions, workshops, and trainings to explore the soul relationships that shape our lives and to find what heals them.

Let’s bring the Orders of Love back into our lives!

With love, Maia

The Wish for a Child

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How Family Constellation Can Support Fertility and Parenthood

The desire to have a child is one of the most natural and powerful wishes we can hold. And yet, for many, the path to becoming a parent is not a straightforward one. When pregnancy doesn’t happen—despite readiness, love, medical support, and deep longing—the journey can feel lonely, confusing, and painful.

Medical advances such as IVF, IUI, egg or sperm donation, and surrogacy offer hope to those wishing to start or expand a family. Yet, even with the support of science, emotional and energetic blocks can remain – often deeply rooted in the hidden layers of our Family System.

Beyond the Physical: The Soul of the Family System

In Family Constellation, developed by Bert Hellinger, we recognise that many life challenges — including fertility issues — may not begin with us. They often stem from transgenerational trauma, unresolved grief, or excluded members in the Family System. These hidden loyalties and entanglements can unconsciously affect our bodies, our relationships, and even our ability to conceive or nurture new life.

For example:

  • A woman may carry unconscious guilt from a grandmother who lost a child.
  • A man may feel split between loyalty to his family of origin and starting his own.
  • A previous abortion or miscarriage in the Family System may have been unacknowledged, leaving a ‘missing piece’ in the family soul.

Many of my clients have come to Family Constellation work after years of trying to conceive, through natural means or assisted procedures like IVF. They’ve often tried everything—except this. And yet, for so many, Family Constellation becomes the missing piece.

Why? Because this work doesn’t just address the body—it reaches the soul.

Uncovering Hidden Dynamics

Family Constellation allows us to access the Morphogenetic Field—the deep knowing field of our family system—where unconscious loyalties and entanglements across generations can be seen and released.

Sometimes, infertility or repeated IVF failure is not about biology at all. It can be the soul’s response to unresolved trauma or loss in the family system: a sibling who was lost and never mourned, a grandmother who died in childbirth, an abortion that was never acknowledged, or the hidden grief of a parent. These experiences leave energetic imprints that may unconsciously block life from flowing freely.

My Own Journey

My personal journey into Family Constellation began with the very same wish. Years ago at work in my law office in London, I had a powerful and unexpected encounter during an energy healing session. I was simply seeking relief for a sore back from working too many hours sitting at the desk—yet suddenly, a deep soul cry emerged: a longing for a child I didn’t even know I was holding.

The healer told me: ‘You’ll have a son. I can see him. He’s behind your right shoulder, about 5-7 years old, with blond hair and blue eyes, looking at you patiently. He’s already here, waiting for you to clear the path.’ I was stunned. At the time, I had just started dating my future husband and wasn’t planning to have a child. Years passed, we married, but I never became pregnant. Tests showed nothing wrong, yet nothing happened, even after starting IVF.

Eventually, a friend training in Family Constellation suggested we join a workshop. What did we have to lose? That weekend opened a door I didn’t know existed. Six months later, I was pregnant—with the child I had seen all those years ago. Today, he is a grown, happy young man—with blond hair, blue eyes, and a calm, loving nature.

Soul Healing for Parenthood

That experience changed my life. I’ve since helped many others clear the hidden blocks to parenthood—not by replacing medical approaches, but by complementing them at a soul level. Family Constellation can help you:

  • Identify entanglements or ancestral trauma affecting fertility
  • Honour lost or excluded family members who may be unconsciously ‘blocking’ new life
  • Restore the natural order in the Family System so Love and life can flow again
  • Reconnect with the soul of your future child

How Family Constellation Can Help

  • Uncover and release emotional and energetic blocks to conception
  • Heal unresolved grief from miscarriages, abortions, or stillbirths
  • Explore the impact of family secrets or excluded members
  • Bring clarity and acceptance around IVF, donation, and surrogacy
  • Strengthen the inner bond between partners on the fertility journey
  • Reconnect with your body and its innate wisdom
  • Create space for a child to arrive — not just physically, but soulfully

A Safe Place for Healing the Soul

You are not alone. The path to creating a family can be both challenging and beautiful — and Family Constellation offers you a compassionate companion on the journey. Your future child may already be near, waiting, as mine was, for the healing that opens the door.

At Family Constellation VIRTUAL, we offer workshops, one-on-one sessions, and training programs where you can safely explore your own path to parenthood from the convenience of your own home. Whether you are just beginning to try, have undergone multiple procedures, or are considering alternative ways of becoming a parent, this work can offer peace, perspective, and often, profound transformation.

Get in touch with us to learn more about sessions, upcoming workshops or courses related to fertility, IVF, and Family Systems. Your story is welcome here.

Warm hugs, Maia

Healing the Inner Child

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Healing the Inner Child Through Family Constellation

Inner child work has become a cornerstone in modern therapeutic and self-help practices. It invites us to reconnect with the younger parts of ourselves that still carry unmet needs, emotional wounds, and unresolved trauma. When combined with the powerful systemic approach of Family Constellations, as developed by Bert Hellinger, inner child healing becomes a deeply transformative experience.

Who is the Inner Child?

The ‘inner child’ represents the emotional body of our early years. It carries the joy, creativity, vulnerability, and pain of childhood experiences. While we grow physically and intellectually, parts of us often remain frozen in time, particularly around moments of trauma, neglect, or emotional loss. These traumas unconsciously influence our adult relationships, decision-making, and even our health.

Family Constellations and the Systemic Lens

Bert Hellinger’s method of Family Constellation work offers a unique systemic view of individual and ancestral entanglements. It reveals how many of our inner child wounds are not only personal but also rooted in intergenerational patterns. For example, a child may carry the unspoken grief of a parent, feel guilt for a sibling’s suffering, or unconsciously take on the fate of an excluded family member, going back 7 generations.

In a Family Constellation, the inner child can be represented by another participant, an object, or simply acknowledged through guided awareness. The process allows the client to witness the hidden dynamics in their family system that contribute to their emotional struggles. Through applying the Orders of Love, healing movements can occur.

How the Inner Child Appears in Constellation Work

Clients may find that their inner child appears in various ways:

  • A deep longing for connection with mother or father
  • Fear of abandonment, rejection, or not being seen
  • Patterns of self-sabotage or unworthiness
  • Difficulty trusting or feeling safe in relationships

When these core wounds are acknowledged in a constellation, often by restoring the natural order in the family system (Bert Hellinger’s ‘Orders of Love’), the inner child can begin to heal on a soul level. The adult self can step forward with more clarity, strength, and emotional resilience.

A Bridge to Wholeness

Family Constellation work doesn’t ‘fix’ the inner child in a conventional sense. Instead, it builds a bridge of understanding and compassion between the adult self and the wounded parts. This bridge, supported by the systemic and energetic field, offers profound integration.

Clients often report a sense of peace, emotional release, and new insight into their childhood experiences. They may find they are no longer reacting from old wounds but responding from a place of grounded presence.

Combining inner child work with Family Constellations creates a deeply holistic pathway to healing. It allows us to see that our pain doesn’t exist in isolation but is part of a larger story—a family story that longs to be acknowledged, honored, and healed. As Bert Hellinger taught, when love can flow again in the right order, the soul finds peace. And when the inner child is met with this love, transformation naturally follows.

Reconnect with Your Inner Child

Take a quiet moment now. Gently close your eyes and focus on your breath. Let each inhale guide you deeper into your body, into the space within where calm and peace reside.

Now, invite your inner child to appear. See yourself as that child:
What are you wearing? How old are you? Where are you?
What’s happening around you? What is being said?
And finally, who is with you?

Simply observe. Don’t judge or try to remember the ‘correct’ story. Just witness. Allow your inner child to express whatever comes up, freely and without interruption. Then, with all the love in your heart, offer them what they may have longed for: your presence.
Tell them: ‘You are not alone. I see you. I hear you. I love you.‘

This is a powerful and gentle visualisation to reconnect with your inner child. To go deeper into healing, they require guidance—an approach that not only acknowledges the wounded inner child within the soul but also reveals the intergenerational roots of the pain.

Family Constellation offers such a path. It allows you to uncover the hidden dynamics that shaped your inner world—and transform them. At Family Constellation ViRTUAL, you find a safe, compassionate space for this kind of deep inner work.

Our workshops, private sessions, and online training programs are designed to support you in reconnecting with your inner child and uncovering the healing movements that restore the Flow of Love and bring Freedom and Happiness to your life. If you want to begin your journey to heal your inner child now, please get in touch.

Give your inner child a big, warm hug!

Maia

What is a Family Constellation Workshop?

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Since the beginning of our family constellation VIRTUAL journey, we’ve conducted numerous family constellation workshops, catering to groups eager to explore their family entanglements. In this blog post, however, we aim to pause and reflect, redirecting our focus to the fundamental question: ‘What truly defines a family constellation workshop?’

While some of you may already be well-versed regarding what a family constellation workshop is (in-person and virtually), some are completely unaware of the benefits they can reap from participating in a family constellation workshop. This post aims to help those unfamiliar with family constellation workshops by explaining their main ideas and importance, making it easier for those thinking about joining.

Understanding Family Constellation Workshops

In our family constellation workshops, individuals gather and explore their family dynamics under the guidance of the facilitator, but the real power player is the morphogenetic field. The facilitator helps everyone connect to this field, and it acts like a spotlight on intergenerational trauma. Whatever dynamic needs attention will come up and be released. So, think of the facilitator as more of a helper, who makes sure everyone stays connected with the field and applies the Orders of Love as developed by Bert Hellinger.

Participants Roles

By going with the morphogenetic field, each step will be revealed one at a time to achieve healing. As such, at any different point of the workshop, you will be engaged in the constellation either as a constellator, a representative, or an observer.

The Constellator

In the workshop, the morphogenetic field chooses who is going to have a constellation through the facilitator. When this occurs, the morphogenetic field will help your family members, whether from the present or past up to seven generations, to reveal any unbalances that cause suffering. These unresolved matters may be contributing to inexplicable challenges in your current life. Our workshops have successfully addressed multiple issues, including but not limited to illnesses and diseases, spousal relationships, infertility, sibling dynamics, body odors, insomnia, nightmares, and various others.

The Representative

At the beginning of the workshop, the facilitator asks the constellator (client) to choose representatives for certain family members. They will naturally connect to the morphogenetic field of the constellator family system and take over emotions, gestures, and movements from the represented family member. Importantly, representatives are not provided with scripts or predetermined dialogue. Instead, the morphogenetic field guides the session, allowing representatives to authentically experience and convey the emotions and concerns of each family member involved in the family constellation.

The Observer

When one is not engaged in constellating or representing, their role is to observe. Observers must ensure that they stay connected and focused during the workshop, as they play a crucial role in holding the connection with the morphogenetic field with the other participants, contributing to its strength. If the focus is lost, the strength of the morphogenetic field begins to diminish. Remaining focused during the session is not only beneficial to the workshop but also to the observers themselves. By resonating with the family dynamics of others, observers can undergo their own healing, especially if they experience similar dynamics.

Benefits of the workshop

Whether you’re a constellator, representative, or observer, at any point in the workshop, you’ll sense the healing process unfolding. You’ll navigate emotional release and discover previously unnoticed connections within your family system. Similar to peeling layers of an onion, the family constellation workshop gradually relieves us of all sorts of encumbrances. True happiness arises when we shed those layers completely. Although the workshop’s effects typically manifest up to six months afterward, you’ll already feel calmer, recognising that you’ve taken a step toward soul healing.

Now that you have a basic idea of what happens in a family constellation workshop, are you intrigued? If your answer is yes, go to: familyconstellationvirtual.com/workshops/ to join our virtual workshop. We’re excited to have you explore and discover more about yourself and your family dynamics with us.

Your presence could be the starting point for deep insights and positive shift!

Have a great day ahead.

Maia

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What are participants saying

  • At first I was concerned that online Family Constellation sessions would probably not work well, or at least be considerably less effective than sessions in person with Maia. But what I found was the online group energy was just as strong as before, and my personal experiences were just as insightful and just as healing for me as in previous sessions. In fact in some cases, I felt the energy was even stronger.

    I feel it is extremely important though when the sessions are online that the facilitator is especially experienced in guiding Family Constellations. We are blessed that Maia is such a facilitator. Thank you Maia. Love

    John J.

  • I have been attending many family constellations and Maia is an extraordinary gift to New Zealand. It is such as honour collaborating and supporting her work. With many years of experience she is an amazing facilitator and very well educated by the master Bert Hellinger. I highly recommend this healing modality to everyone.

    Alejandra F.
  • I was suffering of armpit odour since my teenagehood. No matter what I did, it was always there. The same week I had a one-on-one session with Maia about this issue I wore a sleeveless dress again, the odour was completely gone!
    Julia V.
  • It has been a wonderful opportunity to get to meet & work with Maia and the virtual family. She guided me to shed light on those circumstances that were consuming me, to remind me of my way home and to the realisation that I've been carrying the key to enter it all along. Thanks to my friend that recommended Maia’s family constellation. 💗
    Virna M.

  • My first Family Constellation workshop. I can tell Maia is a deeply tuned-in spiritual being, with her feet on the ground and great wisdom to compliment her considerable and lucid intelligence. Friends had recommended Family Constellations as a complimentary modality to the Hakomi psychotherapy I have graduated in, and it seems Maia is one of the most (if not the most) experienced and trained facilitator. It was an intense day! Quite different from anything else I've tried. Beautifully conducted, clearly explained, and conducted in an embodied, interactive way that catered to my individual concerns and outlook. I'll definitely be trying this again. Amazing group process - powerful but lighthearted, fun and comfortable.

    James K.
  • I wanted to thank you for the beautiful group session we had the other day and the amazing opportunity to work on my own constellation. It came at the right time, felt really good and profound to release and I am open to see and experience what happens next..
    Christina Y.
  • Thank you so much for today, I was really buzzing after the workshop, I felt like jumping and hugging everyone that came my way.
    Anna I.

  • Having done both group and private Family Constellation sessions online I can say that they are both as effective as sessions in person. To my surprise I found that the group sessions worked even better online. Being alone in my own home was familiar and comfortable. Perhaps I was less self-conscious, or less distracted. Whatever the reason, we were all in agreement that the virtual format was more intense. Both as a character and as a watching participant it was less like a performance and more of a group conversation. More intimate, more of a collaboration in spirit.

    Maia has a flexible attitude of exploration that makes it easy to trust her instincts, and go for the journey, set up for enquiry, being confident that it will always be worth the trip. The resulting resolutions brought powerful and meaningful outcomes in every case.

    Kate S.

  • I’ve completed several online Family Constellations with Maia and, like in-person constellations, I’ve been blown away by their power. In fact, there seems to be something particularly strong in the connection when it’s done online. The healing is absolutely as profound as in person and Maia skilfully facilitates the process with awareness and compassion. I highly recommend it.

    Gabrielle M.
  • Thank you for hosting the recent constellation workshop, introducing me to this exciting field, and shepherding us through the process. It has deeply affected me, and already impacted my psychotherapy practice in some very beneficial ways. I look forward to attending future workshops and trainings with you.
    Mark C.
  • Thank you so much for the workshop. It was incredible and I got a feeling, in the morning, that all my male ancestors on that side were thrilled.
    Alex B.
  • I had several family constellations with Maia about my struggels with studies, business, children issues and my own habits and fears. The way Maia is facilitating family constellations makes me feel comfortable, open, secure and nourished. The sessions with Maia have allowed me to finally embark on my way to true self-healing and to bring all issues I had to an end.
    Virna M.
  • I am grateful for Maia's guidance in this continuous learning at the school of life, for I have applied what she taught to my own family system, improved all interrupted reaching out movement with my parents, siblings and deceased ancestors through her skilful experience. Thank you for your strength, gentleness, deep intuition and passion to share. I will honor your love by living the best version of myself.
    Meilinda S.

  • I came to Family Constellations with a deep curiosity — something in me knew there was truth here. Every session brought a quiet yet profound shift: pain, guilt, even shame began to dissolve. There was a peace I couldn’t explain, only feel.

    Training with Maia was a turning point. Her presence, shaped by decades of study and devotion, brought steadiness and trust. Through her guidance, I experienced not only personal healing, but healing that touched my family and ancestors too. What stood out most was the grace of the morphogenetic field and the teachings on the Orders of Love — invisible forces that reorder what’s been burdened, and return us to belonging. I am deeply grateful to Maia for working with such clarity, compassion, and depth. The work changed me. Words can’t fully express my gratitude — only the peace I now carry can.
    Virna M.
  • I have so much Love and Gratitude for Maia and her work in Family Constellations. After experiencing a few now, I am still so amazed! Very profound in how it works with healing on many levels. It has not only helped me in releasing personal childhood trauma, which is not easy at times, also trauma from my whakapapa and past generations. Thank you Maia!
    Tina S.
  • Thank you so very much for yet again a profound experience and Healing day. It was very powerful and yet peaceful!
    I am very grateful for your teaching, providing a space to safely tackle generational trauma and your tranquil approach.
    Claudia D.
  • I couldn't find a virtual Family Constellation Facilitator training anywhere. After googling and searching, I found this beautiful training with Maia. It was exactly what I was looking for. I love how Maia incorporate other healing modalities and made the connection between spirituality and family constellation. It is all connected! This training was Godsend and I am beyond grateful!
    Rev. NamShakti

  • Maia has a unique approach to Family Constellations - in accordance to the legacy left from Bert Hellinger her Constellations treat the essential - the roots of the imbalance.

    I have been in her Family Constellation workshops and latly her online workshops - her online group sessions have proven to be really fantastic. You can certainly receive the benefits of being part of a group dynamic and be constellated from your own home.

    Daniel M.
  • I met Maia two years ago while I was going through a big transformation in my life. Thanks to this healing modality, I have been able to heal deep wounds in my family system and to connect and received the love from my direct family and all my ancestors. I have done both ways, present and virtual workshops with Maia, and found that both of them work perfectly and are equally powerful. For me it is great that we now have more flexibility to attend. I will be forever thankful to Maia for making me reconnect from love to my family, specially with my mum. Thank you Maia for holding this amazing healing space.
    Rocio G.

  • The morning after my first family constellation workshop with Maia I woke up with new eyes. Everything looked different, more vibrant and alive. I suddenly had no need to spend hours scrolling through social media and posting about stuff, it felt meaningless and like a waste of time. Instead I went in the garden and looked after my veggie patch. It was so peaceful. Thank you for this profound experience which opened my heart and my eyes to what is really important in life.

    Halie G.

  • It is amazing how immediately and authentically we are able to see the heart of the issues that emerge within the family dynamic in family constellations facilitated by Maia. I've learnt a huge amount about myself each time I have been.

    Kate S.
  • Thank you so much for your time and wonderful skills, you truly are amazing. I love your energy and your vibe is brilliant. This family constellation work is so powerful and very healing. I am so grateful to you for bringing it to us.
    Polly F.
  • I want to thank you Maia from my heart for what you enabled for me during the family constellation workshop. I feel a huge weight has flown from my body to allow positive healing to begin after many years of negativity, the last two being hell on earth. Thank you so much for sharing your gifts and being here. Kia ora, my heart is very humble and for once is light again. Love and gratefulness to you.
    Tamara T.
  • Since beginning family constellation work with Maia, there has been a marked improvement in my family's relationships. This has been experienced not only by myself, but on a wider familial scale. I have watched dynamics slowly and gently change for the better and there is a clear sense of more space and capacity for everyone to move in different, healthier directions and ways of relating. Prior to this work, I was not on speaking terms with any of my immediate family. We struggled to speak without animosity and tension taking over the interaction. It was awful. With this work, we have been able to build our relationships through phone calls, and even had a small visit with one another recently. We enjoyed each other's company and it was the most peaceful interaction we have had in recent memory. On a personal level, I have experienced a greater sense of peace, health and well being. I have watched my brother and father begin to form a bond they struggled to build before, my dad is finally beginning to see possibilities for himself and he is exploring them. My mom is also working on her own personal development in areas she has always wanted to, but felt unable to, while my brother is branching out bravely into areas he never thought possible in his personal and professional life, as am I. This work has been able to free each of us in ways unique to each person, allowing us to delve into areas we want to work on and find forward momentum and progress- whereas before it felt no matter how much therapy or work was done, some things were hidden or muffled and solutions to growth, progress and development, were frustratingly hidden from view or ineffective no matter how much work we each were doing. It feels that now, each individual can bloom and thrive in the unique ways each of us most needed and our entire family unit is becoming healthier as a result. There's still more to do, but I feel we are headed in a wonderful direction with the support Constellation Therapy has offered.
    Michele B.